py/nlr: Clean up selection and config of NLR implementation.

If MICROPY_NLR_SETJMP is not enabled and the machine is auto-detected then
nlr.h now defines some convenience macros for the individual NLR
implementations to use (eg MICROPY_NLR_THUMB).  This keeps nlr.h and the
implementation in sync, and also makes the nlr_buf_t struct easier to read.